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Envy

Treating another part of the organization’s success as a personal loss.

Resentment of another's advantage, with a desire to diminish or deny it.

Imagine this: A successful unit becomes harder to support when its achievement makes the executive feel less indispensable.

A grey raccoon covers an orange colleague’s larger trophy while a lamp illuminates his own smaller award.

How the pattern works

Covering the larger trophy does not improve the smaller achievement. An executive can reasonably compare results and challenge a celebrated project. Envy makes the comparison itself an injury: another person’s contribution becomes less welcome because it suggests that the leader was not indispensable.

The reaction need not be an open attack. Access is withheld, credit is absorbed into the leader’s story or a strong unit is described as unusually lucky. Organizational power gives a private comparison consequences beyond the person feeling it. The enterprise loses something useful so that its internal hierarchy of admiration can remain comfortable.

What it costs the work

Successful methods become less likely to travel between units. People may conceal progress or avoid giving another team credit because achievement invites resentment. The executive’s own direction also narrows: reducing the rival becomes more compelling than serving a worthwhile purpose.

A distinction worth keeping

Competition, disappointed ambition and criticism of an unfair advantage are not automatically Envy. A justified criticism identifies a defect or arrangement that ought to change. Vanity seeks admiration for oneself; Envy resents another’s advantage. Vindictiveness may follow a perceived humiliation, but comparison and payback are different motives.

What a useful response can change

Translate the difficult comparison into a question about the work. What was achieved, what can be learned and which conditions explain the result? Credit and examination can coexist.

Keep resource and appointment decisions answerable to defensible purposes. A useful contribution should not lose support merely because its author has become conspicuous.

Name the value of a different contribution of one’s own. Admiration need not require imitation, and another unit’s success need not become the only available measure.

Questions for reflection

  • Would I welcome this result if I could take the credit?
  • What useful capacity is being reduced to keep the comparison comfortable?

Other perspectives

No mean jealousy ever influenced his conduct to his brother artists; he could afford not only to acknowledge the merits, but to forgive the malice, of his rivals.

John Ruskin · The Two Paths · Read the source

Ruskin presents an artist as able to acknowledge rivals’ merits. The passage is his evaluative portrait, not independent proof of the artist’s conduct or a universal law of success.

Those that have joined with their honor great travels, cares, or perils, are less subject to envy; for men think that they earn their honors hardly, and pity them sometimes, and pity ever healeth envy.

Francis Bacon · Essays · Read the source

Bacon considers how perceived effort affects envy of honor. His historical generalization is a prompt to examine a comparison, not a reliable way to diagnose another person’s motives.