Too little
Overpromising: you announce Friday and leave the team to discover that your success requires their weekends.
Match the reach of a proposal to the risks others would have to bear.
A disposition to weigh consequences before choosing a worthy course of action.
A credible commitment gives people a direction they can carry out. Prudence weighs the work, uncertainty and burdens behind a proposal before a leader turns personal ambition into someone else’s obligation.
Try a practice
Your boss asks when the client can have the new service. Friday would sound impressive, and you would be the person who made it happen. Before offering that date, you ask the team to work through the remaining tasks. It would take two weekends they had not agreed to give. You propose a smaller first delivery and a later date for the rest. Your boss calls the first plan ambitious. You now know whose Saturdays were making it so.
The team’s estimate changes what you are willing to promise. You examine scope, available time and alternatives while the decision is still open. Asking after announcing the date would leave colleagues choosing between disappointing you and absorbing the cost. Their information deserves more influence than that.
A considered commitment lets people organize their work and protects trust in what the group can deliver. It also keeps the person making the promise answerable for the resources it assumes, including time that belongs to other people.
Overpromising: you announce Friday and leave the team to discover that your success requires their weekends.
Prudent commitment: you hear the estimate before promising, reduce the first delivery and explain the remaining uncertainty.
Avoidance of commitment: you demand certainty about every detail and leave both the team and client unable to plan.
Make a commitment people can act on, with room for uncertainty and an honest account of who supplies the time.
Explain the capacity a proposal needs before its date becomes a promise.
Offer a useful part of the work when the full request exceeds the available time.
Courage may be needed to disappoint the boss; Prudence establishes why the proposed commitment needs to change.
Justice asks what others are owed. Prudence considers the consequences and feasibility of the course you propose.
Impressive ambition is a counterfeit of Prudence when a confident deadline hides the work it transfers to others. A considered proposal makes those assumptions available for examination.
Choose a small commitment you control. List the time it requires from you and anyone else. Check an assumption with the person concerned before offering their effort, and revise the scope if necessary.
These pages offer ideas for reflection and character practice, not professional advice. Choose practices suited to your circumstances and abilities. You may adapt, pause, or skip an exercise; putting yourself or someone else at risk is not proof of virtue.
About these practicesSeven selections to return to through the week. Follow a source link to read the surrounding passage.
His purpose is simply a foresight of the consequences of his energies connected with those of the things about him, a foresight used to direct his movements from day to day.
John Dewey, Democracy and Education
Chapter Eight: Aims in Education; 1. The Nature of an Aim.
Dewey connects an end to the means that make it possible. A delivery date needs an account of the work and time through which it could be met.
But if each views the consequences of his own acts as having a bearing upon what others are doing and takes into account the consequences of their behavior upon himself, then there is a common mind; a common intent in behavior.
John Dewey, Democracy and Education
Chapter Three: Education as Direction; 1. The Environment as Directive.
Cooperation requires seeing how one person’s actions bear on another’s. A proposed schedule must include the work its promises create.
Reasoning shows that if the idea be adopted, certain consequences follow.
John Dewey, How We Think
CHAPTER SIX; THE ANALYSIS OF A COMPLETE ACT OF THOUGHT
Dewey asks that consequences enter deliberation. The proposed deadline becomes more credible when the team’s estimate changes it before a promise is made.
Such acts of generosity are not to be so highly esteemed as those which are performed with judgment, deliberation, and mature consideration.
Marcus Tullius Cicero, De Officiis
BOOK I MORAL GOODNESS; section 49
Cicero distinguishes considered generosity from an unexamined impulse. An offer can be more responsible when its conditions have been thought through.
I would not push you to any rashness, but I am very anxious that you do your utmost, short of rashness, to keep Bragg from getting off to help Johnston against Grant.
Abraham Lincoln, The Papers and Writings of Abraham Lincoln, Volume Six
TELEGRAM TO GENERAL W. S. ROSECRANS.; WASHINGTON, May 28, 1863.; section I
Lincoln’s wartime instruction holds urgency and the limit against rashness together. The decision requires both a purpose and a considered scope.
Thinking is the accurate and deliberate instituting of connections between what is done and its consequences.
John Dewey, Democracy and Education
Summary. In determining the place of thinking in experience we first
The passage makes foresight part of responsible action. A proposal’s appeal cannot settle whether the people doing the work can carry its demands.
He must give form to things vague, things latent, to mere tendencies.
Mary Parker Follett, The New State
THE NEIGHBORHOOD GROUP; XXV NEIGHBORHOOD ORGANIZATION VS. PARTY ORGANIZATION Leaders or Bosses?
Follett describes a leader making a developing purpose intelligible. Prudence adds the examination that lets a proposal take workable form.
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