Too little
Teaching to the loudest signal
“Everyone has got it; next part.”
A few confident responses stand in for the whole group.
Attentiveness
Notice the learner who has not become the loudest event in the room.
A considerate readiness to notice what merits attention.
Attentiveness gives relevant particulars their due notice. Teaching asks for attention to actual attempts, questions and changes, including those that do not announce themselves loudly. It involves checking what you noticed rather than assuming you can read a learner’s mind.
Attentiveness gives a response to this learner, here
The front row nods. Your explanation appears to be going wonderfully. At the edge of the room, someone has been turning the same page backward and forward. That small movement is not a diagnosis. It is a reason to make room for a question.
Finding the balance in Attentiveness
An illustrative everyday situation
During a demonstration, a quiet learner pauses repeatedly at the same step while others move on.
A fitting response
Checking the detail
“Would another example or a closer look at this step help?”
The observation opens a choice without declaring what the learner feels.
Pursued too far
Watching as surveillance
“I can tell from your face that you are confused.”
Attention becomes an intrusive claim about another person’s inner state.
Notice is a beginning for inquiry, not a license to interpret everything about someone.
When the situation changes
A learner may be thinking carefully, tired, or simply finished. Accept their account and provide a way to ask later rather than insisting your interpretation is correct.
What Attentiveness makes possible
Small details can help you choose a better question, pace or example. Attentiveness makes the encounter more responsive without promising that you will detect every difficulty.
Attentiveness in ordinary life
A new interest
A learner returns to a detail you mentioned in passing. You ask what caught their attention and enjoy the answer.
An online pause
Someone asks for the example to stay visible. You leave it on screen rather than treating your next slide as urgent.
Nearby virtues, different work
Patience
Patience gives the noticed thought time to develop.
Discernment
Discernment tests what a detail means instead of taking an impression as a verdict.
Attentiveness and its counterfeits
Counterfeit: Mind-reading called attention
Announcing a learner’s supposed feelings is a counterfeit of attentiveness. Check your interpretation without requiring a personal disclosure.
Counterfeit: Attention as inspection
Monitoring every harmless movement may look attentive while preventing comfortable participation. Attend to what matters to the shared task.
How to cultivate Attentiveness
Notice who has had an opportunity to respond, without requiring equal public performance.
Ask a concrete question about the work rather than interpreting a face.
Keep an ordinary route open for a later or private question.
Try it today
Do not diagnose distress or ability from appearance, silence or movement. Respect privacy and a learner’s choice not to explain personal circumstances.
In a routine lesson or explanation, invite a question through a form that does not require speaking before the whole group.
When helping someone learn
Notice the question that has not yet been spoken.
Questions worth returning to
Whose response have I mistaken for everyone’s response?
What did I observe, and what did I merely infer?
Keep the practice proportionate
Do not diagnose distress or ability from appearance, silence or movement. Respect privacy and a learner’s choice not to explain personal circumstances.
About these practices · DisclaimerQuotations and further reading
Seven selections to return to through the week. Follow a source link to read the surrounding passage.
My experience is what I agree to attend to.
William James · The Principles of Psychology, vol. I · XI, Attention; p. 402 · excerpt
James links experience with attention. The teaching question is which actual detail has been lost behind the planned explanation.
In regard to what he doubts about, he is anxious to question others.
Confucius · Analects · XVI.10; Confucius speaking · James Legge translation · excerpt
Asking about a doubt gives attention a next step. A quiet response need not be interpreted without checking.
the teacher must bring not only the capacity, but the desire, to observe natural phenomena.
Montessori asks for a desire to observe, not only a method. Here observation concerns the learner’s work and questions, without importing her historical measurement theories.
Accustom thyself to attend carefully to what is said by another, and as much as it is possible, be in the speaker’s mind.
Marcus Aurelius · Meditations · VI.53 · George Long translation · excerpt
Marcus’s instruction invites close listening to another account. It does not authorize claiming to know the learner’s mind.
he needs to be a student of the conditions that modify for better or worse the directions in which individual powers habitually express themselves.
Dewey directs the teacher’s attention toward conditions as well as individuals. A confusing setup may deserve notice before a learner receives a label.
It implies withdrawal from some things in order to deal effectively with others,
William James · The Principles of Psychology, vol. I · XI, Attention; p. 404 · excerpt
James describes attention as selective. A teacher can choose the next relevant detail without pretending to monitor everything.
Each fact brought within the field of comparison should clear up some obscure feature or extend some fragmentary trait of the primary object.
John Dewey · How We Think · chapter XV, The Recitation; p. 210 · excerpt
Dewey asks each comparison to clarify the main object. Attentiveness selects an example that answers this question rather than adding distractions.
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Take these ideas into everyday life
Read freely, follow the nineteen-virtue program, or adapt this collection in My Virtues. These practices concern your own choices, not a learner’s performance.