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Envy
Wanting another’s advantage diminished rather than finding a worthy direction of one’s own.
Resentment of another's advantage, with a desire to diminish or deny it.
Imagine this: A shopkeeper pays more attention to shortening a neighboring display than to improving their own.
How the pattern works
The shorter plant does not grow when the taller flower is cut. Envy nevertheless finds satisfaction in changing the comparison. Another person’s success becomes an injury because it makes one’s own position seem smaller, even where the success has taken nothing away.
A neighboring shop gains customers; a colleague receives recognition; another workshop solves a problem first. These discoveries can supply information or admiration. Envy instead asks how the advantage can be discredited, withheld or spoiled. The work that could improve one’s own contribution becomes less attractive than the prospect of seeing the rival reduced.
What it costs the work
An organization can lose the very example from which it might learn. Useful achievements become awkward to share, colleagues conceal progress to avoid resentment, or a team imitates a rival without understanding the purpose of the work. The comparison governs direction while the customer’s actual need receives less attention.
A distinction worth keeping
Disappointment, competition and anger at an unfair advantage are not automatically Envy. A legitimate criticism identifies a defect or an unjust arrangement, not merely the discomfort caused by another’s success. Greed wants an advantage for oneself; Envy may prefer that neither person has it. Vindictiveness seeks payback for a perceived injury rather than simply a lower comparison.
What a useful response can change
An uncomfortable comparison can be translated into a specific question: what was done well, what is worth learning and what purpose would make the effort worthwhile even without a rival?
Credit can be given accurately without requiring the admirer to become a copy. Recognizing another’s achievement leaves room for a different contribution of one’s own.
Where the advantage rests on an unfair arrangement, the criticism can name that arrangement and the remedy sought. Diminishing a person indiscriminately does not correct the unfairness.
Questions for reflection
- Would this achievement still trouble me if it belonged to someone I liked?
- What would improve my own contribution without taking anything worthwhile away?
Other perspectives
Taste is often envy in disguise: it turns into the art of reducing excellence within the smallest possible compass, or of finding out the minimum of pleasure.
William Hazlitt · Characteristics and other writings, Collected Works volume XII · Read the source
In these aphorisms on criticism, Hazlitt suspects a taste that chiefly reduces excellence. Criticism can be justified; the question here is whether discovering something good has become an unwelcome result.
It is good that this ambition should be cultivated, not by any rivalry in expense, but by a rivalry in knowledge and in liberal feelings; and few things would more contribute to so desirable an effect, than the abolition of all such contracted views as those to which we have alluded.
Charles Babbage · On the Economy of Machinery and Manufactures · Read the source
Babbage redirects rivalry toward knowledge and liberal feeling. The comparison offers an alternative to cutting down the neighboring flower: improve what can usefully be shared, rather than compete only in display or expenditure.